"SAVE THE GIRL CHILD"

We are living in modern era but there are some states in which girls are treated badly.There are state such as Haryana, Punjab and Gujarat been highly female deficit.What is the reason behind it ? Yes it should be started in a big way. I can remember the family planning program launched by Indira Gandhi with two child norms in a big way. Like wise BETI  BACHAVO ANDHOLON  could be started with whole lots of incentive be announced for nurturing the girl child to full growth from the govt side. This will give fillip to the cause and the poor will also wont discard the girl child.Lets come closer and make our life more wiser.Majority of the Indian population lives in villages at where people are illiterate and parents treats the girl children as curse. Illiterate parents even stopping their pregnancies for not to delivery a baby girl. So some States due to the decrease in the population of girls have started some campaigns named BETI  BACHAO ANDHOLON and Save girl child. In this present technologically advanced world every human being is equal whether it is boy or girl. We can find girls are developing and attaining success in all fields compared to boys. So the superscription and ill-behavior of people has to be changed and every single girl child has to be saved. People have to change their mindsets and have to get ready to deliver a baby girl. There are some things that money just cannot buy, like manners, morals and intelligence.
This was suppose to be Done a way long when the problem was more compared to now. We will not say that the problem is completely solved or something like that, but still the problem of killing of girl child is reduced. But the same thing can't be said for many parts in India where still people kill there girl child and they do hope of getting a male child. This thought in itself is useless. How one can be sure that I will have a boy next time? It is possible that again god gives a girl, and that means you will kill her also and become a full-time murderer. Such a shame for Indians.
I feel sad and ashamed that in India we have to start such a campaign. The reason is not because it is for a girl child. The reason is the need to start it in the first place. The ratio of boys against girls is more in many states and the reason is the girl child is killed as she is born or aborted. In some states the difference in Ratio is so poor that men are getting old unable to marry as there are no girls available in their state. It is a sad state of affair. It is the Indian mind set that boys are better than girls that has led to this ghastly crime against girl children. The government has schemes for only single girl children and not for the girl child as such. People's mind sets have to be changed and they need to be more educated in this regard. Also stricter punishment should be given where it is proven that parents killed their girl child. A love affair with knowledge will never end in heartbreak! Yes, we have to save girl child. The ratio of male and female is in very serious condition in northern states of India. Except Kerala in all other states the number of girl child is very less as compare to 1000 boys. It is not only we will try to save girl child but take care for their proper development. We must try to give them social security which the prime duty of our society.Few decades ago, there was much of female foeticide in some of the states and the outcome of such a thoughtless act of the humans is the decrease in number of females. Even otherwise, the male population of the country and each state as well is slightly higher than the female population with an exception in Kerala where the female population is comparatively higher than the male population. Still the people in those days out of ignorance followed female foeticide, and unfortunately even these days there are some who are going for female foeticide and this has drastically dropped the female population and now the males are finding it difficult to get a woman as a life partner due to the reduction in their number. At least I think now these people should realize the fact and treat the girl child as an asset to their family. Wherever we the human being fiddle with the nature's way there is calamity lurking. The latest in this respect is the female foeticide widely practiced in our country. We worship the DURGA the female deity as the ultimate source of power on the one hand and are routing out the female child on the other hand. There is no difference in the race to eliminate the female child between the castes, communities, whether urban or rural or educated on illiterate. The effect of this senseless act is going to be felt after about 10 to 15 years when the disproportionate proportion between the male youths and female youths will be glaring. At that time the country may have to go back to the age of DRAUPADI(Panchali) with one wife for more young men. Otherwise it will be not one Kurukshetra war but thousands of Kurukshetra wars being fought between the male youths for the hands of girls. It is really sad that we are in need of such campaign. Sex ratio needs to be balanced in many states and people, especially rural ones, need to be made more aware about the importance of girl child. Girls are all equivalent to the boys and there is as such no difference in capabilities of both of them. It is really sad and ashame that some people give preference to male child. "Every charitable act is a stepping stone towards heaven"India has gone to this state due to the existence of dowry system in our country. Due to demand of dowry, parents unable to meet the dowry requirement find it difficult to get their girl child married. Parents started thinking that a girl child is a burden to a family. Now the concept is changing slowly. With the equality between the male and female and the growing education, girls stand equal to the boys. In India though the population is on an increase, the ratio of the girls have come down, and it may go down further, if we don't encourage giving birth to girl child. A state must go out of the way to get a girls married. In Tamilnadu, the government offers 4 grams of gold for the marriage of a girl in every family. Marriages are to be simplified without much expenditure and show off. It is good that states have started "BETI BACHAVO ANDHOLON" at right time, to balance India with male and females in future.   We needs to save our child especially a girl child. Many attacks are facing for girl child and they cannot resist because their parents are misusing them in a wrong way. In INDIA it is shamed to hear that we have to start a campaign for saving our child. We have to be good parents for our family, then only we can have good value in our society. First child abusing must be stopped and parents must take care of them by saving in a appropriate way. The campaign need to save daughters with a mass movement with society's participation should be launched in INDIA for saving the girl child. No one will change our thoughts but we have to change ,we have to alter it,we have to modify our thoughts and mindset a good behaviour towards a girl( A mother, A sister, A bride, A goddess).  DON'T LET YOUR CUTE GIRLS TO MOVE OUTSIDE THEIR HOUSES BUT STOP YOUR BOYS TO STARE AT THEM.   LET YOUR GIRLS  TO GROW, TO MOVE,TO RUN,TO TAKE LEAP AND BOUNDS,TO SPREAD THEIR WINGS AND FLY IN EACH AND EVERY FIELD OF THEIR LIFE. Par inhe jeene do, jai hind.